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As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging – perfectionist – martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfectionism paralyzes me and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.

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I would love for you to join me as I work to undo these old patterns and evolve to create a more serene and accepting existence. (And you should know that I still want to ear flick the little knuckleheads {this includes my husband} when they don’t rinse a dish before putting it in the dishwasher — always a work in progress.)

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Summer Rewind #4: Slow is the New Fast – Shifting My Perspective on Speed

  • Marriage: Practicing Compassion & Acceptance
  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
  Hi Team! Maybe some of you savvy recovering perfectionists noticed that I have two posts with almost the same exact title? I love that in 2019 I had never [...]
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Summer Rewind #3: Slow is the New Fast – Learning How to Heed My Speed

  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
  Hi Team, Happy, happy 4th of July! Between last week and the next two weeks, you’ll notice a little theme here—Slow Down! As I was prepping all of this [...]
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Summer Rewind #2: “Slow Me Down Lord”

  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
  • Spirituality: Trusting the Universe's Plan
  Hi Team! In our second week of our Summer Rewind series, I’ll remind you of the opportunity to go deeper on this week’s post topic, “Slow Me Down Lord,” [...]
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Summer Rewind #1: Putting Too Much Weight on Weight – Breaking Free from Decades of Shame

  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
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Wrapping Season 9 – Rest, Rewinds, and a Little Summer Connection

  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
  • Spirituality: Trusting the Universe's Plan
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What If the Gift You’ve Been Waiting For Is Already Here?

  • Spirituality: Trusting the Universe's Plan
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Present and Positive – How a Simple Gratitude Shift Changed My Whole Day

  • Spirituality: Trusting the Universe's Plan
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