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As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging – perfectionist – martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfectionism paralyzes me and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.

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I would love for you to join me as I work to undo these old patterns and evolve to create a more serene and accepting existence. (And you should know that I still want to ear flick the little knuckleheads {this includes my husband} when they don’t rinse a dish before putting it in the dishwasher — always a work in progress.)
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Analysis – My Secret Weapon for Finding Peace

May 16, 2025
  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
  The other day I was analyzing my night sweats and I shared my discovery with G Man.  “Homey, I have a theory about my perplexing temperature troubles at night.” [...]
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What to Look For in a Mother – Lessons From My Mom and Her Friends

May 9, 2025
  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Parenting: Giving Kids Dignity
  This Sunday is Mother’s Day, a perfect Friday to acknowledge all the mothers in my life. Anyone out there listening who knows my Mom, knows how blessed I am [...]
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Forreste Jolicoeur – People Pleasing

May 2, 2025
  • Martyrdom: Prioritizing Self-Care
  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  Team, I am so happy to be sharing one of the final Summer Submissions of Season 9. This entry was sent in by my former Confessions editor, Forreste, who [...]
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When Helping Hurts – Knowing Who’s Ready for Healing

April 25, 2025
  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Martyrdom: Prioritizing Self-Care
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Make Me – Being Forced To Do Things I Don’t Want To Do

April 18, 2025
  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
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Overcorrecting – Caring Too Much About Kids’ Feelings

April 11, 2025
  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
  • Parenting: Giving Kids Dignity
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Give Your Kid the Biggest Leg Up In Life – Teaching Manners

April 4, 2025
  • Parenting: Giving Kids Dignity
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