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As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging – perfectionist – martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfectionism paralyzes me and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.

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I would love for you to join me as I work to undo these old patterns and evolve to create a more serene and accepting existence. (And you should know that I still want to ear flick the little knuckleheads {this includes my husband} when they don’t rinse a dish before putting it in the dishwasher — always a work in progress.)
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Keely McCarthy – Building Support for Life

January 3, 2025
  • Recovery: Positive Lifestyle Changes
  Today I’m sharing a Summer Submission sent in by my cousin Keely Grace McCarthy. Keely shares a technique she learned in graduate school called “scaffolding.” She writes… Scaffolding in [...]
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Vacation Gone Wild – What Are We Doing to Ourselves?

December 27, 2024
  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  • Perfectionism: Maintaining Personal Serenity
  This summer, a friend and I were talking about our habits during vacation. She and I were specifically bringing up the phenomenon of how, whenever we’re traveling or on [...]
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To DO or DON’T – What’s the Most Loving Choice Today?

December 20, 2024
  • Martyrdom: Prioritizing Self-Care
  • Micromanaging: Benefits of Letting Go
  Now, most TeamConfessioners know that much of what I do each week supports my well-being. I have the life stuff I have to do, but I also make sure [...]
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Julie Fitzpatrick – An Exit Ramp Appears

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All I Want for Christmas VII – Separate Beds

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What Do My Actions Say? Practicing What I Preach

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Making the Holidays With Family Easier – Don’t Be Surprised

November 22, 2024
  • Family & Friends: Making Healthy Connections
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