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Happy Valentine’s Day – The Best Thing I Can Do For Love

February 14, 2025

Team, as I get older, I’m getting a little mouth on me. While early in my recovery of micromanagement I needed to take a few days before bringing issues [...]

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Expectations – Am I Setting People Up for Failure?

February 7, 2025

With Super Bowl Sunday just days away, it feels like the perfect time to revisit a lesson I learned from football—a topic I first covered several years ago. While [...]

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Julie Fitzpatrick – An Exit Ramp Appears

December 13, 2024

Hello there TeamConfessioners, I am Mags’ friend Julie. For years, I’ve gotten a kick out of Mags’ podcast because I so often relate to her stories and I get [...]

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A Reason To Trust The World – A Lesson From Life and My Husband

November 8, 2024

Okay, this is always a little annoying, but Team, I think there’s yet another thing that my husband has been getting right that I’ve been getting wrong. While listening [...]

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Marital Differences – Get It Done vs. Get It Done Just Right

October 4, 2024

This weekend G-Man and I will be celebrating our 23rd wedding anniversary. Anniversaries feel like the perfect time to reflect on the differences between my husband and me. This [...]

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Rite of Empathy – A Shortcut to Understanding Someone Else’s Pain

May 3, 2024

G Man and I recently made a decision to redistribute household responsibilities to allow me more uninterrupted work time. As a result, my husband now has to interrupt his [...]

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Genuine Connection: Shifting from Gifts to Presence

February 9, 2024

The other day, my friend was telling me a story about when she was a very new stay-at-home mother. She explained that when her husband returned home from work, [...]

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The Healing Power of Reparation – Navigating Love and Forgiveness

February 2, 2024

Marriage: Practicing Compassion & Acceptance

TeamConfessioners, can you believe it’s already February? As many of our teammates know, in February we often take time to focus on love. This week, I’d like to talk [...]

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Back to School Does Nothing for a Marriage – Creating Family Homeostasis

September 15, 2023

I’m recording a little later than I had anticipated, but it just took me a bit longer to pull my act together this year…or it took me the same [...]

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Do You Really Know How to Take Care of Others? Creating a Mission Statement for Everything

January 20, 2023

Do you really know how to take care of someone? I’m only asking because I actually didn’t. I thought I did. My version of caring for someone was to [...]

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